3lationship Goals
3lationship Goals is hosted by Shayla, Shantay and James and the 3 of them are involved in a closed polyamorous relationship. They highlight the dynamics of polyamory by shamelessly discussing the nuances of sharing their partners... physically, emotionally and sexually. Unapologetically sharing the reality of non-monogamy, discussing what it's really like and what makes them work. Don't forget to follow them on social media to catch even more- Instagram: @perfecttriangle60 Facebook: Tay Jay Shay
Episodes
42 episodes
Episode 42: Leveling Up Your Communication Skills
In this episode, Shayla and James discuss a few ways to go about upping communication skills in your poly relationship to resolve a potential issue quicker and more efficiently. Then they move one to give some pointers for those of you lo...
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Episode 42
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59:35
Episode 41: The Dating Life #SingleCouple
In this episode, James and Shayla talk about what the dating life has looked like for them and how they plan on finding a girlfriend to add to their relationship. James then leads the conversation about some tips and signs of a healthy sex life...
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Episode 41
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57:22
Episode 40: Keeping the Foundation Strong Post-Break Up
In this episode, James and Shayla go into depth about what kept the foundation between the two of them strong throughout their time as a triad as well as when they were struggling to keep their triad afloat. The topic takes a turn for the sexy ...
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Episode 40
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56:06
Episode 39: The Break Up
In this episode, James and Shayla provide insight on why their relationship with Shantay ended and reflect back on major turning points in the relationship. The conversation turns kinky when Shayla shares a new sexual experience they had...it i...
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Episode 39
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1:12:40
Episode 38: 2021- Moving boxes & Wedding Bells
In this episode, the triad shares a few milestones they're experiencing going into 2021 and how they've been dealing with them; including, Shantay moving back in and the big wedding day for the marriage of Shayla and James! It's a swirl of emot...
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Episode 38
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1:04:26
Episode 37: Poly Meets BDSM
In this episode, the triad is accompanied by Ceasar and Robin, a couple that practices BDSM in their relationship everyday. Oh and they also practice polyamory, looking to eventually add an additional partner to their already unique dynamic. Th...
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Episode 37
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1:12:14
Episode 36: Moving as a Unit
In this episode, the trio took it LIVE on IG to discuss how they go about eliminating negative competition amongst the relationship and turning it into elevating one another. Then the convo turns dirty when they each reminisce about what movie ...
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Episode 36
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1:10:28
Episode 35: Introducing Poly
In this episode, Shantay, Shayla and James go into detail about how to introduce polyamory to someone who may not be familiar with the lifestyle -- whether it be friends, co-workers or even acquaintances. The conversation turns kinky while they...
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Episode 35
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1:00:56
Episode 34: The Polyamorous Man
In this episode, Shantay, James and Shayla get into a deep conversation about the role and responsibilities of a poly man in a relationship. The topic gets more kinky when they each talk about a few items left on their sexual bucket list. Liste...
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Episode 34
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1:22:06
Episode 33: Why Poly Is Trending?
In this episode, Shantay, Shayla and James go through a few reasons why polyamory, specifically Black polyamory, is currently trending. Then James leads Kinky Cravings with a discussion about times when each of them were completely wrong about ...
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Episode 33
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55:00
Episode 32: Being Poly Respectfully
In this episode, the trio talk about how they go about being respectful of the friends and family involved in their life that aren't polyamorous. For Kinky Cravings, Shantay lead a discussion about a few interesting sexual experiences each of t...
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Episode 32
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1:13:34
Episode 31: The Women of Polyamory
In this episode, the hosts of 3lationship Goals dive into a deep discussion regarding women of the polyamory community and some of their roles in a poly relationship. Then for Kinky Cravings, they reminisce on each of their first impressions af...
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Episode 31
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1:05:23
Episode 30: Managing Emotions
In this episode, the trio goes into deep conversation about how each of them avoids loosing themselves in the relationship through managing their own emotions and mental health. Things lighten up when they go on to talk about a few kinky sex ga...
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Episode 30
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1:00:09
Episode 29: Overcoming Obstacles
In this episode, the trio gets personal and shares a HUGE obstacle they had to get past that almost ended their relationship. The conversation gets kinkier when they talk all about how sex works in their triad. You'll want to turn this one ...
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Episode 29
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1:10:39
Episode 28: Polyamory's Future
In this episode, Shantay, Shayla and James converse about various legal complications that currently come along with the dynamic and society's steps to changing them for the better. Afterwards, they talk about the top few celebrities they'd get...
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Episode 28
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58:19
Episode 27: Living Black and Poly
In this episode, the trio dives into the discussion of being Black in the poly community, including various stigmas and obstacles that come up. For Kinky Cravings, they define some sex terms you may have heard before, but never knew what they w...
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Episode 27
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1:07:52
Episode 26: Triads-Poly or Not?
In this episode, the trio goes into discussion about the stigma in the poly community regarding closed triads and if they should be considered polyamory. Then they get creative for Kinky Cravings with a raunchy game of This or That.
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Episode 26
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1:05:39
Episode 25: You Still Mad or Nah?
In this episode, the trio talks about how to come together and nurture the relationship after a big fight or even days of arguing amongst each other. James also dives into the topic of sex addiction and how it does AND does NOT relate to polyam...
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Episode 24
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1:06:13
Episode 24: Polyamory Fears
In this episode, the trio gets deep and puts their relationship fears out on the table to discuss. They also hit on some other general fears of a polyamorous relationship. Things take a turn for the kinky while the triad discuss how sexual role...
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Episode 24
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1:04:36
Episode 23: Our Poly Reality
The trio is back at ya! In this episode, Shantay, Shayla and James go in depth about their own reality of their closed triad along with some general realities of polyamory overall. Then things get hot and steamy while they discuss ways to celeb...
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Episode 23
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1:07:31
Episode 22: Growth and Change
In this episode, the throuple talk about the ways each of them have evolved since beginning their polyamorous relationship together. Then they move on to discuss a particularly deceptive sexual trait and if they've ever done it. They a...
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Episode 22
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57:49
Episode 21: When Kids Are Involved
In this episode, the trio discuss their personal experiences of being in a poly relationship when a child is involved and how it might play out when they want to expand their poly family. For this week's Kinky Cravings, the three of them rate t...
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Episode 21
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1:03:41
Episode 20: New Partner, Same Rights?
In this episode, Shantay, James and Shayla discuss whether or not if a new partner being introduced to an established relationship should have all the same rights as the partner(s) already involved. They then go on to debunk a handful of myths ...
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Episode 20
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56:57
Episode 19: Relationship Agreements
In this episode, the triad contemplate the value of having a relationship agreement and what it would include. For this week's Kinky Cravings, they talk about the first time each of them ever had an orgasm and how. This one gets pretty deta...
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Episode 19
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59:47
Episode 18: The Love Language Test
In this episode, Shayla, James and Shantay reveal their results from the Love Language test and discuss how each of them give and receive love in their polyamorous relationship. For Kinky Cravings, they move on to the non verbal cues each of th...
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Episode 18
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59:52